How My Life Changed Forever

David R., Narconon Arrowhead Graduate

I had a good life before using drugs. I worked every day and was raising a family. One of my happiest moments was when I married my high school sweetheart. We met in high school, got married, and raised kids. That was the good part of life.

I started using drugs to help me get through the day and make the time go by better. I was working 12–14 hour days, and using drugs made those long hours seem shorter.

I was working with some guys on the job, and one of them had some meth. He said to me, “Snort a line of this. It will make the day go by faster.” I did, and it felt too good.

After 3–4 years, I reached the point where I had to have it every day. That’s the sad thing about drugs—you get addicted. Over time, it got harder and harder. I didn’t want my wife to know about it, so I tried to hide it from her. But before long, I was doing stupid things and lying to her just to go out and get drugs. I started staying out all night with friends.

I knew I needed help. I tried to stop for a year, but I couldn’t kick it. I’d quit for a month, then relapse.

My brother had gone to Narconon before, and I saw how much he changed. That’s exactly what I needed.

I knew I needed help. I had seen how it changed my brother’s life, so I was 100% willing to go through the program. When I got there, I didn’t experience much withdrawal. There were a lot of people there, and I enjoyed hearing everyone’s stories. I made some real good friends. I also needed to get away from the job that was enabling my drug use.

When I came out of the sauna, I knew I would never do drugs again. Then, when I went through the objectives, I learned how to live life again and how to talk to people. I still use the skills I learned, such as communication skills.

The biggest thing I got out of Narconon was learning how to communicate with others. It’s impossible to have a relationship without communication with them or having something in common. Now, I can find something I like about someone, discover what we have in common, and then I will be able to communicate with them.

I loved graduating. I felt really good, and I feel the same way today. My life changed forever. I started my own company after that. It’s been about 19 years since I went through the program, and I’ve been good ever since.

“I am living life to the fullest. I know I don’t have any problems and don’t even drink. It has been a good life.”

I have a great relationship with my family. I’ve got a grandson now, and my relationship with my wife is night and day. I quit lying to her, and now she trusts me. Before I went to Narconon, I was facing a divorce, but when I left the program, everything was fixed. The last 19 years with her have been wonderful.

I no longer wake up thinking about drugs. I’m good. Narconon changed my life.

What I liked about it was that they taught me it was a choice. I can choose to do drugs or not. I am not a recovering addict—I’m over it. They fixed me. After I graduated, I didn’t need to go to any meetings. I made the choice to be drug-free.

The program works. Everyone who goes to Narconon gets something different from it, but it works.

David R., Narconon Arrowhead Graduate


AUTHOR

Elaine M.

Elaine has always loved helping people and has always focused on service, which led her to Narconon Arrowhead in 2017. She soon discovered that her true passion is helping people regain control of their lives through drug and alcohol rehabilitation. In her spare time, Elaine enjoys crocheting and cuddling with her cats.

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